7 Signs He Likes You

So you've got your eye on a special someone, but you're not quite sure if the feeling is mutual. Dating and relationships can be tricky to navigate, especially in the early stages when you're still trying to interpret signals and figure out if your crush sees you as more than a friend.

Luckily, there are some common signs that can help clue you in to whether he's really interested or just being polite. 

Here are 7 body language and behavior clues that suggest he likes you as more than a friend:‍

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1. He Makes Extended Eye Contact

When you're chatting with your crush, pay attention to his eyes. Does he maintain eye contact for longer periods, or does he frequently glance down or away? Prolonged eye contact is a major sign of interest. Even shy guys will lock eyes with someone they like in order to create a sense of intimacy and connection. So if his eyes linger on you, there's a good chance he's very intrigued.

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2. He Finds Excuses to Talk to You

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If you notice your crush suddenly popping up in your conversations or finding reasons to chat with you, it likely means he wants to spend time interacting. Guys who have a romantic interest will go out of their way to be around you and strike up conversations. It might be under the guise of needing help with an assignment, casually walking by your desk/locker, or messaging you funny memes or links even if they're not urgent. Pay attention to how often he engages you versus other girls.

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3. His Body Language Opens Up

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Does your crush turn his shoulders squarely towards you when you talk? Make space for you if you're in a crowded room? Lean in closely? Gestures like these signal he wants to eliminate any barriers between you. Guys adopt open postures like these when they're comfortable and trying to get closer to someone they like. On the other hand, closed off body language like crossed arms and leaning away generally indicate disinterest.

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4. He Gets Nervous Around You

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It's endearing when your crush stumbles over his words, makes awkward jokes, or gets flustered in your presence. These signs he likes you stem from the fact that he's anxious to impress you but feels self-conscious. Many guys lose their cool a bit around someone they're really into. Pay attention to how he interacts with other girls - if he doesn't get tongue-tied or nervous around them but only with you, it's a promising sign.

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5. He Compliments and Teases You

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Guys often gently tease the girl they like in order to create playful banter. And they'll look for opportunities to compliment you sincerely as well, whether it's praising your appearance, skills, or personality. If your crush seems to linger around you going out of his way to joke with you and say nice things, he's likely trying to win you over.

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6. He Opens Up to You

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When a guy shares personal details, stories, and his innermost feelings with you, it means he trusts you and sees you as someone important. Men are often guarded around those they don't know well. But if your crush divulges more about his life, interests, dreams and even insecurities, it likely signals he seeks an emotional connection with you.

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7. He Finds Ways to Be Close Physically

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Light touching can be a sign of major interest from a crush. This could include subtle gestures like briefly placing his hand on the small of your back, sitting extra close to you, playfully bumping your shoulder, grazing your arm, etc. While these seem like innocent touches between friends, they can be his way of testing the waters to see if you're open to his physical advances.

In the early relationship stages, pay close attention to these body language cues and subtle signs from your crush. And trust your instincts too. If you feel a natural spark and connection blossoming, there's a good chance the attraction is mutual. Enjoy getting to know each other better and take it step by step. The right timing will reveal itself when you're both ready to turn a friendship into something more.

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